Get Over……

Ever wonder what does it really mean? Ever wonder why we use it so much? i have a feeling that now-a-days people tend to use it all the more.

You are sitting in your air conditioned office, working on your laptop, probably making some big excel report or may be a presentation and at the back of your mind, you’re thinking about the last meeting with your boss and how awful it was.

And you’re still worried about your performance and you don’t wanna think about your past performance, you just wanna go ahead and give your best but suddenly your hear a voice saying (are you ready) and now all that confidence, all the preparation it’s just simply gone, gone out the window.

now, you are worried about it and it shows on your face and you are looking for somebody who can help you emotionally, coz you don’t wanna crash in front of the BIG B and you start looking for somebody who can sing you a glory song, may be help you with some nice words to put you back on the saddle but to your surprise there is no one.

And eventually the result is the same and now you are back with the same crushed ego and all your hear from your colleagues/friends GET OVER, it happens, you gotta get over it.

GET OVER - how simple it is for people to say this, you lost it, its ok, GET OVER IT, she said no, its ok, GET OVER IT, blah blah blah.

Are we really this Naive? or we do this on purpose. its easy to say GET OVER, when you are not at the end of a gun.

I think before you go out and start giving this damn good (GET OVER/MOVE ON) advice to people, you need to take a minute and may be analyze the situation, think about it, as to how would you feel if it had been you.

Would you want someone to just listen to your story and upon realizing that its not a good story, would you want them to simply tell you to GET OVER/MOVE ON, would you?

No, you won’t, coz you would want them to listen to you, amy be empathize with you and may be to tell you something but GET OVER.

because we all know that at the end you have to get over things, people, situations, etc. in life but most of the time not everybody wants to listen to the same thing.

So, next time you hear somebody sharing their story, may be an experience, good or bad, or a memory, a thought, may be some unfullfilled desires/wishes…….just listen to them, don’t just take them for somebody who is sad or depressed.

Hold them, listen them, be a part of their experience and tell them your story to make  them feel better but just don’t tell them to GET OVER……..

Coz like i said - its easy to move on or get over anything when you’re not at the end of gun……………

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